Why are women disgusted with the men of today? Because decisive men are an endangered species.
Yesterday I was inside the mechanic’s waiting when I saw this couple walk in:
The husband looks like he’s wondering who chopped off his balls. The wife is wondering how she ended up is such a sexually boring mess.
As soon as they were done with their consultation from the mechanic at his desk, the wife turned to the husband and said, “What do you want to do?”
The husband had a hissy fit and sounded like a teenage girl when he loudly snapped back, “What do YOU wanna do?”
The wife let out a sigh and said, “Wanna wait? Okay we’ll wait.”
She then lead her husband to the benches that you see them on in the photos above.
Men must be leaders in their relationships with women. I’m all for workplace equality, and I’d be for 50-50 relationships, or female led relationships too if that’s what women wanted. But that’s not what the overwhelming majority of women want.
The book 50 Shades of Grey had generated almost half a billion dollars in revenue. Who do you think that half a billion dollars came from – men or women?
Women aren’t spending millions of dollars on books about dominant men leading women because they’d rather be with a passive man who turns to her for guidance on where they should sit in the waiting room.
This wife (pictured above) has the face of a woman who is longing to tied to the bed post and spanked on her butt.
And no, she doesn’t want her husband to say, “Honey was that too hard?” after each spank.
But instead she gets laid about once a month as she is on her back with a comfy pillow that her husband neatly placed behind her head.
Let’s leave sex out it. You can’t magically transform into the leader in the bedroom if you can’t even decide what drink to order at the bar. The person you are during most of the day becomes your default setting. And I don’t believe women just want a man who pulls them by their hair and calls her a “bad girl” in bed.
Women desire a man who knows where he’s going in life. Who takes care of himself and can take care of her if need be. They want a man who has goals and accomplishes what he says he will.
Men need to step up. Be the leader, the protector. At the very least they should sit with their back straight!
I can feel the sexual tension drift away each time I hear a man ask a woman, “Where do you want to go on our date?”
My advice to men is to put your hand out for your wife or girlfriend to grab and take her where you want to go. Lead her on an adventure.